Category Archives: Homosexuality

Changing National Legislation

Dear Readers:

As nations develop, it sometimes becomes necessary to remove irrelevant legislation, especially if it hinders the nation’s development. Prior to removing such legislation, it is prudent to understand why the law was passed in the first place, and what behaviour it was intended to restrain.

At the recently held second National Consultation on HIV/AIDS, some assertions were made to justify a recommendation to government to decriminalize homosexuality and prostitution in Barbados. Some Ministers of Government seem to have readily accepted these assertions and have stated their intention to hastily implement the recommendations. Today, we shall examine some of these assertions.

The first and most popular assertion is that the law is discriminatory and there is no more room in Barbados for laws that discriminate against people. Our criminal laws do not discriminate against a set of people, but they do discriminate against unacceptable behaviours, and by extension, any person who commits such offences. It is misleading therefore to attempt to associate the discrimination of unacceptable behaviour with our collective consciousness of colonial slavery and post slavery legislation, which discriminated against people.

The second assertion is that condoms must be distributed to prisoners in order to control the spread of HIV/AIDS at the prison, and government cannot be seen to sanction an illegal act, therefore homosexual behaviour must be made legal. Rape is reportedly one of the major methods of HIV/AIDS transmission among prisoners. The government can therefore find itself in a similar dilemma of being seen to sanction another illegal act. Also, there is no basis to assume that rapists in prison will consider using a condom when rapists outside of the prison do not. It also seems highly unlikely that a rapist can effectively install a condom while struggling to restrain his victim.

The third major assertion is that we live in a pluralistic society and the rights of every citizen must be respected. This is essentially an academic argument that should not be used outside of the university. Simply put, it is asserted that homosexuals have a right to engage in homosexual acts, which presupposes that there are persons innately predisposed to homosexuality.

To understand this academic argument, it is necessary to examine it with an equal academic argument. Both theft and buggery are against the laws of Barbados. However, it can be argued that the law discriminates against thieves and homosexuals by making their behaviour illegal. This argument can be strengthened if it can be shown that the thief and the homosexual exhibit innate behaviour that they have no control over, rather than learned behaviour that can be corrected.

There is some evidence to support the argument that theft may be innate. Infants are not taught to steal, yet they regularly take things that do not belong to them, and psychologists have well documented cases of adult kleptomaniacs who cannot control their behaviour of stealing. However, despite those cases, the evidence that stealing is a learnt behaviour is overwhelming. Should theft therefore be decriminalised, or made legal only for those who may be predisposed to stealing?

In the realm of academia, the conclusions to debates like these are inconsequential. However, it shows why such debates should not be allowed to influence the government of a nation. There is currently an academic debate in North America and Europe on whether homosexual behaviour is learned or innate. Research into whether it is innate is in its embryonic stages and has so far yielded inconclusive results. However, the evidence that it is learnt is overwhelming, and the link between homosexual behaviour and paedophilia, or the rape of children, is strong.

The homosexual act of buggery has been considered so dangerous to Barbados’ development that the offence carried, and still carries a penalty of life imprisonment. There is a strong link between homosexuality and paedophilia, and some homosexual groups in North America and Europe boldly proclaim that link as intentional. The Government is therefore ill advised to unleash the horrors that previous generations of Barbadian legislators have secured for us in a proverbial ‘Pandora’s box’.

Barbados has reached a very dangerous stage in its development as an independent nation. A small lobby group promoting immoral behaviour can now influence a national organisation to make illogical recommendations that not only go unchallenged by Government, but which are instead inexplicably embraced. The dangers are compounded when a Government can stifle effective debate by hastily forcing an unpopular legislative change that will not facilitate Barbados’ development, but which has the potential to unleash a horror that can destroy our nation from within.

Protecting the Broken Hearted

Dear Readers:

When changing existing legislation, it is important the all perspectives, including the layers of consequences, be considered. Today we shall examine a perspective of the current lobby to legalize homosexuality.

The Victims

Dysfunctional homes are not conducive to the emotional support children need, or the parental patterns that are essential for normal emotional development. If they do not have an extended family or responsible guardians to provide this support and guidance, then their emotional development can be negatively affected.

A dysfunctional home includes environments where children are victims of incest and adultery, are allowed to view pornography, and grow up without being fathered or disciplined. These experiences can be emotionally devastating for children, who are not prepared for or capable of handling such feelings. It should be noted that adultery is an emotionally devastating act that can push even adults to insanity and suicide.

Children need to receive unconditional love and support as they struggle to recover from such experiences. What they most desperately crave is to have their father or mother hold them tight and say, “I love you my son”, or “I love you my daughter”. However, one parent may be distracted or absent and the other may have very little left to give.

Victims from dysfunctional homes carry broken hearts and damaged, fragile emotions that require healing. They can be highly vulnerable to anyone showing the slightest interest in them, or they can become emotionally defensive and appear unapproachable. If they do not receive the necessary support, then they can easily be lead astray into a life of illegal drugs, crime, sexual promiscuity, homosexuality, and prostitution.

The Abusers

Persons addicted to pornography require more intense and varied sexual experiences to achieve previously-attained levels of sexual satisfaction. To satisfy their desires, they may find themselves drawn to child pornography and homosexuality. Persons with any addictions will generally do anything to satisfy their craving. Through practise, addicts can become proficient at lying and deception, knowing exactly what to say and when and how to say it.

Men and women who are addicted to pornography, and who wish to satisfy their sexual desires by any means, have been known to seek sexual relationships with the broken hearted, and lead them into a lifestyle of sexual promiscuity and homosexuality. Some of these relationships are promoted as being between consenting adults, but they are essentially between abuser and rape victim.

What the broken hearted most longs for, the abuser can deceitfully provide – an emotional support. However, rather than be a true friend and emotional support, men and women who appear respectable, befriend them, and then betray their trust by making the relationship sexual. An emotionally fragile, broken-hearted and vulnerable person looking for an emotional support cannot rationally give consent.

The victim needs the emotional support, and so submits to this relationship and accepts and even defends their involvement. Tragically, the victim can eventually become an abuser and an activist in promoting homosexuality, prostitution, pornography, and various forms of vulgarity.

Regardless of their behaviour, children cannot legally give consent to a sexual relationship and are therefore protected by law. The broken hearted persons among us are particularly vulnerable to being abused, and the law making homosexuality illegal affords them a measure of protection. It also affords the persons addicted to pornography a measure of restraint from becoming abusers. This law also restrains the abusers from parading their victims down the street as they do in North America and Europe.

Attention should therefore be given to actively restraining the abusers and enforcing existing laws on pornography. Also, adequate counselling and treatment should be provided to those who have suffered the emotional traumas of their dysfunctional home environment, and rape from the ones in whom they trusted for emotional support.